Is My Worship Better Than Yours?

For many years various Christian denominations have claimed to have a better, more acceptable form of worship than other Christian denominations. I've often wondered, is this idea rooted in the word or is it substantiated primarily by personal preferences?

If we look closely at the scriptures we find that God gave specific instructions concerning how the temple was to be constructed. We can also find strict instructions on how and when sacrifices were to be made. If we hearken back to the story of Cain and Able we see that the Lord was very particular concerning these things (Gen 4:3-5). But what does the bible say about the act of worship and praise? Is the Lord particular about how this is to be done? In the story of King David found in 2 Samuel 6:14-23, there is a lesson to be learned. In David's heighten state of joy, he worships the Lord by dancing quite vigorously. He danced so hard his clothes fell off. David's wife was ashamed by his exaggerated act of worship/praise and she quickly criticized him. The bible then tells us that she was punished for this and lived out her days unable to bare children.

Today the ugly spirit of criticism is alive and well in our Christian churches. This critical and judgmental nature slowly eats away at the integrity of Christianity as a whole. Outsiders take notice of the intolerance within our own faith and they don't want to be a part of it. How can we share the gospel with lost souls if we ourselves behave like the lost?

In order to rid ourselves of this "critical" spirit we must ask... Are parishioners from one denomination more likely to be saved than parishioners from another Christian denomination, based on their worship style? The bible says this...

1 Cor 12:3 Therefore I tell you that no one who is speaking by the Spirit of God says, "Jesus be cursed," and no one can say, "Jesus is Lord," except by the Holy Spirit.

Rom 10:9-10 That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved.

Ephesians 2:8 For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God

As far as I know there are no Christian denominations that deny that Jesus is Lord and Savior. So if all who believe will be saved as stated in the bible, why waste time being critical of each other?

The bible also says that all Christian believers belong to the body of Christ (1 Cor 12:12-14). With this fact in mind, what good is it to criticize one part of that body? Are not all parts needed to make a strong and functioning body. Would you criticize your tongue because you think your eyes are more useful? No. So why do we criticize our fellow Christian bothers and sisters for the way they worship? So with that being said, is it ok to say that anything goes when it comes to worship within our Christian churches? The bible says this...

1 Cor 14:33 For God is not a God of disorder but of peace. As in all the congregations of the saints.

When you enter a church you should not be over come by a feeling of confusion and disarray. Everyone should not be chanting, falling out and speaking in tongues. A scene like that would be more likely to scare away unbelievers than it would be to draw them in. Moreover the bible says this concerning the speaking of tongues as an element of worship in the churches...

1 Cor 14:23 So if the whole church comes together and everyone speaks in tongues, and some who do not understand or some unbelievers come in, will they not say that you are out of your mind?

1 Cor 14:27-28 If anyone speaks in a tongue, two—or at the most three—should speak, one at a time, and someone must interpret. If there is no interpreter, the speaker should keep quiet in the church and speak to himself and God.

Now there are some churches that are quite UNcomfortable with speaking in tongues in their worship service and try to discourage this element all together. Is this approach biblical?...

1 Cor 14:39 Therefore, my brothers, be eager to prophesy, and do not forbid speaking in tongues.

The apostles were the founders of the Christian church. They received special insight and knowledge by way of the Holy Spirit. In their letters to the churches of those days it was quite clear that a certain degree of order should be exercised within in the churches. Nothing should be done for show. Instead all things should be done for the purpose of spiritual learning, encouragement and to respectfully give praise to God. Outside the church, worship and praise can take many different forms. There are no biblical texts to disprove this.

The point that I would like to get across is this... Let's not waste valuable time criticizing and finding ways to damage the Christian body of believers. We should not be a stumbling block to fellow Christian brothers and sisters who's worship style may differ from our own. As Christians we should have one united purpose. That purpose is to draw in the spiritually lost and feed the hungry souls. Our God is not a simple God. He is able to discern what is genuine and what is counterfeit. He will be the judge of all. Remember, Christ has sheep in many folds. When the time comes to call His sheep, He will do so. His sheep will hear His voice and take their place among the multitude of believers. The bible says...

James 5:9 Don't grumble against each other, brothers, or you will be judged. The Judge is standing at the door!

A divided Christian body is exactly what Satan wants. A divided body is much easier to conquer than one that is diligently working in unison for one purpose. Again that purpose is to spread the gospel, save the lost and feed the hungry (literally and spiritually). Let these Christian acts tell you whether or not a group of Christians are working for the Lord or working in the interests of Satan.

What we all need to do is relax, do what we Christians are called to do and watch the Holy Spirit work... Please the Lord and shame the Devil.